I have been struggling to understand what makes a subset of a family of sets.
Definition: A set $A$ is a subset of another set $B$ if every element of the set $A$ is also in $B$.
For a family of sets $B$, are the elements of B referring to the sets which $B$ contains, or the elements inside each individual set. For example, say we are considering the family of sets $$A = \{\{1,2\}, \{3, 4\}, \{5, 6\}\}$$
If F = {3,5}, then is $F$ a subset of $A$? The whole set $F$ is not in $A$, but the elements of $F$ are.
Question What are the elements of $A$? Answer The sets $\{1,2\}, \{3,4\}, \{5,6\}$.
Second Question What are the elements of $F$? Answer The numbers $3, 5$.
Are all of the numbers $3,5$ part of $\{1,2\}, \{3,4\}, \{5,6\}$? The answer is no (none of those by the way). So $F$ is not a subset of $A$.
What you can say is that the elements of $F$ are elements of the elements of $A$.