This is a homework question:
Prove that: In field $K$ of characteristic $2$, for symmetric bilinear forms on $K^2$, there exist a basis where the matrix of the bilinear form is either diagonal or anti-diagonal.
I tried to do this in $\mathbb{F}_2$ with $2\times 2$ matrices to get some intuition but I found it to be wrong. Any ideas?
Then you must have made a mistake somewhere. If you post your counterexample, we could find out which mistake.
Let $\beta$ be the symmetric bilinear form. Then there are two possibilities,
In the first case, pick any basis. In the second case, consider the linear form $\lambda\colon w \mapsto \beta(v_1,w)$ and think about $\ker\lambda$.