So this is my question:
Find all x such that $4x=3 \pmod{21}$, $3x=2 \pmod{20},$ and $7x=3 \pmod{19}$
So I know I have to use chinese remainder theorem and I know how to do it if $x$ didn't have a coefficient in front of it. In other words, if it was like:
$x=3 \pmod{21}$, $x=2 \pmod{20},$ and $x=3 \pmod{19}$
Then I would be able to do it. All you would have to do is pick a pair, list out the congruency and find the commonality. But how do I do it with the coefficients?
You can use the fact that the coefficient of $x$ is coprime to the modulus in each case, hence a unit. In the first case, $4\cdot 16=1\pmod{21}$, so $$ 4x=3\pmod{21}\iff x=3\cdot 16=6\pmod{21}. $$
Also, $3\cdot 7=1\pmod{20}$, so $$ 3x=2\pmod{20}\iff x=14\pmod{20}. $$
I'll leave the last one for you. Try using the Euclidean Algorithm on $7$ and $19$ to find an inverse if you get stuck. So you can get an equivalence system of congruences, and solve with CRT, as you mention you are familiar with.