I'd like to know the definition of "tangential component" in this case, it is question 3 of page 57 of Do Carmo's book Riemannian Geometry:
It says:
Define $\nabla_XY(p) = $ tangential component of $\overline\nabla_{\overline X}\overline Y(p) $, where $\overline\nabla$ is the Riemannian connection of $\overline M$.
You have a submanifold $M$ of a bigger manifold $\overline{M}$. Tangential means "tangent to $M$".
Specifically, at each point $p\in M$, you have a map $\pi:T_p\overline{M}\rightarrow T_p M$ defined as follows.
The metric $g$ gives us an orthogonal complement $\nu$ to $T_ p M$ so that $T_p \overline{M} = T_p M\oplus \nu$. Then $\pi(X_{T_p M} + X_{\nu}) = X_{T_p M}$. The tangential componenet of $X$ is then, by defintion, $\pi(X)$.