The Wikipedia definition of an Antisymmetric relation says :
R is antisymmetric precisely if for all $a$ and $b$ in $X$
\begin{align} \text{if } R(a,b) \text{ and } R(b,a) \text{ then } a=b. \end{align}
or, equivalently
\begin{align} \text{if } R(a,b) \text{ with } a\ne b \text{ then } R(b,a) \text{ must not hold. } \end{align}
My Question : Shouldn't the contrapositive of the first statement say
\begin{align} \text{if } a\ne b \text{ then } R(a,b) \text{ or } R(b,a). \end{align}
and in considering the mathematical sense of "or", it might as well happen that even if $R(a,b)$ holds ; nothing stops from $R(b,a)$ NOT being true.
Please help me resolve this.
The contrapositive should be $$\text{if } a\ne b \text{ then it not true that } R(a,b) \text{ and } R(b,a)$$ and that is equivalent to $$\text{if } a\ne b \text{ then } R(a,b) \text{ does not hold or } R(b,a) \text{ does not hold }$$ which implies $$\text{if } R(a,b) \text{ with } a\ne b \text{ then } R(b,a) \text{ must not hold. }$$