I am trying to show if the following statements are true or false.
Is it true that $|a + b| = |a| + |b|$ for general vectors $a$ and $b$?
If $a \cdot b = a \cdot c$ for equally-sized non-zero vectors $a$, $b$, $c$, does it follow that $b = c$?
For the first one I found a counterexample that shows that the statement is false.
If vector $a=\langle 1,4,5\rangle$ and $b=\langle 2,2,2\rangle$ then $|a|+|b|=\sqrt{42}$+$2\cdot\sqrt{3}=9.945$, and then, $|a+b|=\sqrt{1^2+4^2+5^2+2^2+2^2+2^2}=7.348$,
then we can conclude that $9.945 \ne7.348$ and the statement is false. Also by the triangle identity $|a + b| \le |a| + |b|$
For the second statement I also found an counterexample that proves that is false. If vector $a=\langle 1,0,0\rangle$, $b=\langle 0,1,0\rangle$ and $c=\langle 0,0,1\rangle$, we will obtain the following dot product:
$a \cdot b = 0$
$a \cdot c = 0$
then $a \cdot b = a \cdot c = 0$ and $b \ne c$
My question is:
To prove the two statements is it enough to find a counterexample and say if it is true or false. Or should I try to provide a more mathematical proof like induction or contradiction?
When considering a statement that claims that something is always true or true for all values of whatever its "objects" or "inputs" are: yes, to show that it's false, providing a counterexample is sufficient, because such a counterexample would demonstrate that the statement it not true for all possible values. On the other hand, to show that such a statement is true, an example wouldn't be sufficient, but it has to be proven in some general way (unless there's a finite and small enough number of possibilities so that we can actually check all of them one after another).
So logically speaking, for these two specific examples, you're right — each one can be demonstrated to be false with an appropriate counterexample. And both your counterexamples do work, but make sure that the math supporting your claim is right: in the first example you computed $|a+b|$ incorrectly.
By the way, the reference to the triangle inequality is a good touch, but it doesn't prove anything. Rather, it's a very strong hint that suggests that there have got to be examples when the inequality rather than equality holds.