I'm trying to understand complex differentiation, and I am confused about how the partial derivatives relate. First, a function $f:V\rightarrow \mathbb{C}$ on a open set $V$ of the complex plan is complex differentiable if the limit
$$\underset{h\rightarrow 0}{\lim}\frac{f(z+h)-f(z)}{h}$$ is exists for every point in $V$. $f$ can be written in the form $f(x+iy)=u(x,y)+iv(x,y)$ where $u$ and $v$ are the real and imaginary parts of $f$ respectively. If a function is complex differentiable, then it must satisfy the famous Cauchy-Riemann equations: $u_x=v_y$ and $u_y=-v_x$ where $$ u_x(x,y)=\underset{h\rightarrow 0}{\lim}\frac{u(x+h,y)-u(x,y)}{h}$$ My textbook (in the appendix) goes on to say that using the CR equtions, we see that $$f'=u_x+iv_x$$ I do not understand how to justify the equation above. $f'$ is the derivative of $f$ in terms of $z$, but the right side of the equation is in terms of the partial derivatives. How does one derive this formula? I know that a complex function is complex differentiable if and only if it is real differentiable and satisfies the CR equations and that if a complex function has continuous partial derivatives and satisfies the CR equations at a point is complex differentiable at that point.
Writing your limits with an $h$ makes both equations look like the same limiting procedure. But there is a subtle difference: in your first equation we have $h \in \mathbb{C}$, whereas the second equation is real and hence $h \in \mathbb{R}$.
Consequently the first equation is a lot stronger than the second. Instead of approaching $0$ only from the left or right, $h$ can do all kinds of things in the complex plane. The existence of the limit in your first equation then means that it does not matter, which approach to zero we choose.
In particular we can be boring and go to zero along the real (or complex) axis. This boils down to restricting $h$ to be real in the first equation. In formulas, we obtain for a complex differentiable function \begin{align} f'(z) &= \lim_{\mathbb{C} \ni h \to 0} \frac{f(z+h)-f(z)}{h} \\ &= \lim_{\mathbb{R} \ni h \to 0} \frac{f(z+h)-f(z)}{h} \\ &= \lim_{\mathbb{R} \ni h \to 0} \frac{\big(u(z+h)+iv(z+h)\big)-\big(u(z)+iv(z)\big)}{h} \\ &= \lim_{\mathbb{R} \ni h \to 0} \frac{u(z+h)-u(z)}{h} + i\lim_{\mathbb{R} \ni h \to 0} \frac{v(z+h)-v(z)}{h} \\ &= u_x(z) + iv_x(z). \end{align}
Here we have used that taking limits is linear, the complex numbers directly decompose into real and imaginary part and that $f$ is continuously differentiable, i. e. the limits we took all exist.