I know that
In a distributive lattce L, a given element can have at most one complement.
But are following points correct:
- In complimented distributive lattices, complements are unique.
- If compliments are unique in a lattice then it must be a distributive lattice.
Your bullet point 1 is correct, and it follows from your statement:
[If $L$ is a complemented lattice, each element has at least one complement. As you note, in the distributive case it has at most one complement. Together these mean the lattice is uniquely complemented.]
Your bullet point 2 is not correct. It is a famous result of Dilworth that every lattice is embeddable in a uniquely complemented lattice. See
R.P. Dilworth, Lattices with unique complements, Trans. Amer. Math. Soc. 57 (1945), 123-154.