Let $p\in [1,\infty [$ and $\Omega \subset \mathbb R^n$ an open. Let $u_n,\in L^p$. We say that $u_n\rightharpoonup u$ (weak convergence) if $$\lim_{n\to \infty }\int_\Omega (u_n-u)\varphi=0$$ for all $\varphi\in L^{p'}$ (the dual of $L^p$).
Q1) First, what is a the intuition behind this definition ?
Q2) How can I bu sure that $(u_n-u)\varphi\in L^1$ ?In other word that $\int (u_n-u)\varphi$ exist for all $n$.
For $Q2$ use Hölder's inequality.
For $Q1$, I personally keep the intuition for the weak vs convergence in norm from the one of the pointwise vs uniform convergence on (say) bounded functions (which is usually taught earlier than $L^p$ spaces). I do not claim that this is the best or even the right way to think of it though.
If you are in for a more advanced explanaition, look for the definition of the weak topology on a normed space. Since $L^{p'}$ is the dual of $L^{p}$ for $1 \le p < \infty$, the definition you wrote gives exactly the sequential characterisation of the weak topology.