I am studying Petr Hájek's "Biortogonal Systems in Banach Spaces" for my thesis. In Lemma 1.25, there is an item whose result is
$\mathrm{(iii)}$ $\{x_i\}_{i=m_k+1}^{m_{k+1}}$ is $(1+\frac{1}{1+k})$-equivalent to the canonical basis of $l_2^{k+1}$, $k=0,1,2\dots$,
where $m_k:= k(k+1)/2$, for every $k\in \mathbb{N}$, and $(x_n)_{n=1}^\infty$ is a sequence in a Banach space $X$.
Well, I know what equivalent basis means, but the book proves this item defining an isomorphism $T$ such that
$\{Tx_i\}_{i=m_k+1}^{m_{k+1}}$ is orthogononal in $l_2^m$,
where $m>k+1$, and such that $\|T\| \leq (1+1/k)$ and $\|T^{-1}\|=1$.
Using the isomorphism definition for equilavent basis (two basic sequences $(x_n)_{n\in\mathbb{N}}$ and $(y_n)_{n\in\mathbb{N}}$ are equivalent iff there is an ismorphism $T$ such that $Tx_i = y_i$ for all $i$), I thought the natural way to define "$M$-equivalent basis" would be to have an ismorphism $T$ such that $\|T\|\|T^{-1}\| = M$ or even $\max\{\|T\|,\|T^{-1}\|\} = M$. However, it doesn't match what the book meant, since $\{Tx_i\}_{i=m_k+1}^{m_{k+1}}$ is only orthogonal and not ortonormal and therefore is not a candidate for a canonical basis for $l_2^{k+1}$.
I did not find a definition for it in the book. I can understand that this meant to be "a basis $(1+\frac{1}{1+k})$-almost like the canonical basis of $l_2^{k+1}$", but I can't give a concrete definition for this equivalence relation. What does $M$-equivalent basis mean, exactly?
I think your problem is not with the definition of "equivalent" but the definition of "canonical". Following the citation [DaJo73a] to its source, On the existence of fundamental and total founded biorthogonal systems in Banach spaces by Davis and Johnson, we find that the original statement of the lemma is:
So if this is all the lemma guarantees, then I don't think there is any remaining confusion.
But just to be clear, in the paper, Davis and Johnson give the following definition of $\lambda$-equivalence, which matches what you expected: