i am learning the DeepLearningBook, in which chapter 2 says
One other norm that commonly arises in machine learning is the $L^{\infty}$ norm, also known as the max norm. This norm simplifies to the absolute value of the element with the largest magnitude in the vector
$$ \begin{equation} \left\lVert{\boldsymbol{\mathit{x}}}\right\rVert_\infty = \max_i |x_i|. \end{equation} $$
what is a magnitude of an element in an vector? how to compute this magnitude?
The magnitude of an element in a vector is whatever makes sense at the time and will be explicitly defined for whatever context you are working in in the event that it is a more exotic scenario.
Generally, in most normal scenarios where you are working with the $L^\infty$ norm, you would be working in $\Bbb R^n$ or $\Bbb C^n$ or something similar for your vector space in which case the magnitude of a specific entry of a vector is very simply the "absolute value" which we are used to using every day of our lives.
For example if the vector was $\begin{bmatrix}1\\-7\\3\end{bmatrix}$, the $L^\infty$ norm of this vector would be $7$ as this is the largest absolute value of the entries of the vector.