16.5. Definition.
Let $F$ be an arbitrary field. A determinant is a function which assigns to each $n$-tuple $\{a_1, \dots, a_n\}$ of vectors in $F_n$ an element of $F$, $D=D(a_1,\dots,a_n)$ such that the following conditions are satisfied.
(i) $D(a_1,\dots,a_{i-1},a_i+a_j,a_{i+1},\dots,a_n)=D(a_1,\dots,a_n)$, for $1\le i\le n$ and $j\ne i$
Why does including the $i$, $i\pm1$ and $j$ elements matter?
This is saying that the determinant is unchanged if you add two entries together. In terms of matrices, this means if you add one column of your matrix to another, you don't change the determinant.
The deal with the $i \pm 1$ is that they're saying $i$ is some fixed index, and everything before the $i$-th entry and everything after the $i$-th entry is unchanged -- only $i$-th entry is changed by adding the $j$-th entry.
I guess the way I usually think of determinants is that they are defined to be multilinear and alternating. This property would then be a consequence as, supposing just for notational convenience $i < j$, we have
$$D(..., a_i + a_j, ..., a_j, ...) = D(..., a_i, ..., a_j, ....) + D(..., a_j, ..., a_j, ...)$$
but this second term is zero since you have the same entry in two spots.