I want to show that if $H\leq G$ then $N_G(H)/C_G(H)$ is isomorphic to a subgroup of $\text{Aut}(H)$.
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We have the following:
$$N_G(H)=\{g\in G\mid gH=Hg\} \\ C_G(H)=\{g\in G\mid gh=hg, \forall h\in H\}$$
Could you explain to me the difference between these two notations?
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EDIT:
We have to show that the map $N_{G}(H) \to \mathrm{Aut}(H)$ is an homomorphism and the kernel is $C_G(H)$, right?
Do we maybe show that the map $g\mapsto (h\mapsto g^{-1}hg)$ is an homomorphism as follows?
$$h\mapsto (g_1g_2)^{-1}h(g_1g_2) \\ \Rightarrow h\mapsto (g_1g_2)^{-1}h(g_1)h(g_2) \\ \Rightarrow h \mapsto g_2^{-1}g_1^{-1}h(g_1)h(g_2)$$
But how could we continue?
Let me give you an example.
Let $G = S_{3}$, $H = A_{3} = \{ 1, (1 2 3), (1 3 2) \}$.
Then $N_{G}(H) = G > H = C_{G}(H)$.
The point being that if you take $h = (1 2 3) \in H$, and $g = (1 2) \in G$, then $$ g h = (1 3) \ne (2 3) = h g, $$ while $$ g H = \{ (12), (13), (23) \} = \{ (12), (23), (13) \} = H g, $$ the products being taken in order.