My lecturer omitted the proof in the lecture notes. From what I can gather, it's because equivalence classes partition always partition a set (the class can contain only that element or more and the elements in that class can only be in that one class so it acts as a partition). However, this, firstly, doesn't tell me why equivalence relations are the same thing as partitions and not equivalence classes, and to me it sounds like partitions cannot be arbitrary. From what I understood all they have to be are a collection of subsets $A_i$ forming some set $A$ such that:
- $A_i \ne \emptyset$
- $A_i \ \cap A_j = \emptyset , \ \ \ \text{if $j \ne i$}$
- $\bigcup _i A_i = A$
I don't see any of these rules demanding subtly there be an equivalence relation, and doing so sounds like it puts restrictions on the creation of a partition that I don't see in its definition. How are they equivalent?

A partition and an equivalence relation are not the same thing; however, they can induce each other (as explained at the end of this answer). An equivalence relation $R$ on a set $A$ is a subset of $A\times A$ satisfying the following properties: $$(a,a)\in R\space\forall a\in A$$ $$(a,b)\in R\implies (b,a)\in R\space\forall a,b\in A$$ $$(a,b)\in R\space\text{and}\space (b,c)\in R\implies (a,c)\in R \space\forall a,b,c\in A$$ However, a partition $P$ of $A$ is a subset of $2^A$ satisfying the following two properties: $$p_i\cap p_j=\varnothing\space\forall p_i,p_j\in 2^A\space\text{with}\space p_i\ne p_j$$ $$\bigcup_{i=1}^{|P|}p_i=A$$ We have that $R\subset A\times A$ and $P\subset 2^A$, so they're not even the same type of object. However, your professor probably meant that every equivalence relation on a set $A$ induces a partition of $A$, and vice versa.
More specifically, if $R$ is an equivalence relation on $A$, then the induced partition $P$ is $$P=\{\{b:(a,b)\in R\}:a\in A\}$$ and if $P$ is a partition of $A$, then the induced equivalence relation $R$ is defined by $$R=\{(a,b):\exists p_i\in P\space\text{s.t.}\space a,b\in p_i\}$$ In plain words: If $R$ is a given equivalence relation, then the induced partition $P$ partitions $A$ into all sets of elements which are equivalent to each other under $R$. If $P$ is a given partition, then the induced equivalence relation $R$ is the relation for which $x\sim y$ if and only if $x,y$ are in the same set of the partition P.