Suppose that $\int_a^bf(x)dx$ exists and there is a number A such that, for every $\varepsilon> 0$ and $\delta > 0$ , there is a partition $P$ of $[a,b]$ with $||P||<\delta$ and the Riemann sum of $f$ over $P$ that satisfies the inequality $|\sigma -A|$ . Show that $\int_a^bf(x)dx=A$.
In the last part of this proof it follows that,
$|A-\int_a^bf(x)dx| \leq |A-\sigma|+|\sigma-\int_a^bf(x)dx| \leq 2\varepsilon$
Then it says we can choose $\varepsilon$ to be arbitrarily small so that $A=\int_a^bf(x)dx$.
If we choose $\varepsilon$ to be very small how does $A=\int_a^bf(x)dx$ follow?
Remember that $A$ and $\int_a^b f(x) dx$ are just numbers so this has nothing to do with integrals.
$$|a - b| \le \varepsilon \ \forall \varepsilon > 0 \to a=b$$
Pf:
Suppose on the contrary that $a \ne b$. We want to show that $\exists \varepsilon_0 > 0$ s.t. $|a-b| > \varepsilon_0$.
If $a \ne b$, then $|a - b| > 0$.
Choose $\varepsilon_0 = |a-b|$. ↯ QED
To help you better understand (at least this is how I understood it when I took basic real analysis), let's see the case where $a$ and $b$ aren't just numbers.
Recall definition of $$\lim_{x \to a} f(x) = L$$
Here we don't (necessarily) have $f(x) \equiv L$ (meaning $f(x) = L \ \forall x$; hell we can have $f(x) \ne L \ \forall x$) because we don't have
'$|f(x) - L| < \varepsilon \ \forall \varepsilon > 0 \ \forall x$'
We instead have '$\forall \varepsilon > 0, |f(x) - L| < \varepsilon$ for some condition on $x$'.
Now if we have $f(x) = b$ and $\lim_{x \to a} f(x) = L$ then we have $f(x) \equiv L$ because:
$\forall \varepsilon > 0, |f(x) - L| < \varepsilon$ for some condition on $x$
$\to \forall \varepsilon > 0, |b - L| < \varepsilon$ for some condition on $x$
$\to \forall \varepsilon > 0, |b - L| < \varepsilon \ \forall x$
$\to b = L \ \forall x$
$\to f(x) = L \ \forall x$
$\to f(x) \equiv L$
To further elaborate on $\int_a^b f(x) dx$ being just a number by putting it in the context of $\varepsilon-\delta$, you can think of
$$|A - \int_a^b f(x) dx|$$
as analogous to
$$|L - \lim_{x \to a} f(x)|$$
After all, $\int_a^b f(x) dx$ is a limit as well. As you said, $\int_a^b f(x) dx$ 'exists'.
Finally, do you remember the proof of uniqueness of limits of functions namely
$$\lim_{x \to a} f(x) = L, \lim_{x \to a} f(x) = M$$
?
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