This is my relation: $R= \{(0,1), (1,2)\}$
I know it is not transitive, because: $$ 0R1 \wedge 1R2 \Rightarrow 0R2,$$ but this is false
Now I want to check, if it is antisymmetric. How can I write down, that it is an antisymmetric relation.
I know the definition: $$ aRb \wedge bRa \Rightarrow a=b $$
As you said, the relation is antisymmetric if $$\text{for all $a,b$,}\qquad aRb\land bRa \implies a=b.$$
Or equivalently, it is antisymmetric unless there are some $a$ and $b$ for which $aRb$ and $bRa$ but nevertheless $a\ne b$.
Does your relation have $a$ and $b$ for which $aRb$ and $bRa$ and also $a\ne b$?