I'm studying Lie algebras as purely algebraic objects, without much of a background in the differential geometry surrounding Lie groups.
The definition of $\mathfrak{sl}(n)$ has been given to me as the algebra of traceless $n\times n$ matrices with multiplication $$[A,B]=AB - BA$$ With my limited knowledge of differential geometry, I roughly understand that $\mathfrak{sl}(n)$ is defined as the tangent space of the Lie group $SL(n)$ at the identity, but I don't see how this leads to the definition of $\mathfrak{sl}(n)$ as the traceless $n\times n $ matrices.
I was hoping that someone would be able to roughly explain (or point me in the direction of a not-too-differential-geometry-technical article):
1) What is the reason $\mathfrak{sl}(n)$ is taken to be the algebra of traceless $n \times n$ matrices?
2) What is the connection between $\mathfrak{sl}(n)$ and $SL(n)$?
3) What is the motivation for this definition?
For a Lie group $G$, there is an exponential map $\operatorname{exp}:g\to G$ (where $g$ is the corresponding Lie algebra) such that $\operatorname{exp}\{tA\}$ is just the one-parameter subgroup of $G$ with tangent vector $A$ at $e$. For matrix groups, this is just the usual matrix exponential $e^{At}$. Now note that $\operatorname{det}e^A=e^{\operatorname{tr}A}$.