It is quite easy to see why $f(z)=\bar{z}$ isn't complex differentiable.
$\frac{\partial{u}}{\partial{x}}=1\neq-1=\frac{\partial{v}}{\partial{y}}$
But I struggle to see why this is the case.
Visualization of the conjugate function in my head is simply flipping the complex plane upside down. I don't see how this creates any discontinuities.
Am I having the wrong visualization or have I misunderstood complex differentiability?


Viewed as a real map the complex conjugation map $z \mapsto \bar z$ is differentiable (in fact, linear): Under the usual identification $\Bbb R^2 \leftrightarrow \Bbb C$, $(x, y) \leftrightarrow x + iy$, it is given by $(x, y) \to (x, -y)$.
On the other hand, it is not complex-differentiable, which is a much stronger property. By definition, $f$ is complex-differentiable at $z_0$ if the usual limit $$\lim_{h \to 0} \frac{f(z_0 + h) - f(z_0)}{h}$$ of the difference quotient of $f$ exists, in which case we define $f'(z_0)$ to be its value. Critically, $h$ is here a complex variable: In the case of the conjugation map, the limit simplifies to $$\lim_{h \to 0} \frac{\bar h}{h},$$ and for real $h$ we have $\frac{\bar h}{h} = \frac{h}{h} = 1$, but for imaginary $h$ we have $\frac{\bar h}{h} = \frac{-h}{h} = -1$. Thus, the limit does not exist for any $z_0$, and the map is not complex-differentiable anywhere.