$X=\{1,2,\dots,10\},x\rho y\Leftrightarrow x\equiv y(mod\hspace{0.2cm}3)$
i.e $x,y$ have the same reminder when divided by $3$ ( it was actually written in the question).
I need to find the number of elements in $\rho$
Clearly $\rho$ is a reflexive relation,symmetric,transitive. I can see $|\rho|\ge 10$ due to reflexivity. Thank you for helping.
options were $40,36,34,33$