I'm preparing for an exam and I would appreciate your help if you can tell me if there's a mistake in my solution.
Question
$6$ children are sitting on a merry-go-round:
Now, we need to change their seats s.t kid $1$ doesn't sit opposite kid $4$, kid $2$ doesn't sit opposite kid $5$ and kid $3$ doesn't sit opposite kid $6$.
$A_1 $ is the set of all their ways to sit in a circle s.t kid $1$ sits opposite kid $4$.
$A_2 $ is the set of all their ways to sit in a circle s.t kid $2$ sits opposite kid $5$.
$A_3 $ is the set of all their ways to sit in a circle s.t kid $3$ sits opposite kid $6$.
$U$ is the set of all their ways to sit in a circle.
We need to count $U\setminus (A_1 \cup A_2 \cup A_3)$.
$$U\setminus (A_1 \cup A_2 \cup A_3)= 5! - 3 \cdot 4! -3 \binom{3}{2}\cdot 2\cdot 2-2^3=5!-28 = 92$$
Explanation:
- The $6$ children are sitting on a merry-go-round.
- That defines an order on them.
- I use symmetric inclusion and exclusion to solve the problem.
I get confused while trying to calculate $A_1$ for exapmle (I think the first way is correct)


Your question has been answered properly already (explaining nicely PIE, i.e. the principle of inclusion/exclusion), but let me offer you an alternative solution.
First place kid1.
Then place kid4 on a position not opposed to the position of kid1 ($4$ possibilities).
After that exactly one pair of open seats opposed to eachother exists.
Let one of these two seats be occupied by one of the $4$ remaining kids ($4$ possibilities).
Let the other of them be occupied by a kid that was not sitting originally opposed to the kid we placed in the former move ($2$ possibilities).
Now place the remaining two kids ($2$ possibilities).
So there are:$$4\times4\times2\times2=64$$
This agrees with the answer of N.F. Taussig.
You could say that this solution is more direct and it is always nice to have more than one approach. Especially because then you can check yourself.
Nevertheless I would recommend the solution that is based on PIE because it is more constructive.