I have the following matrix definition
An m × n (read “m by n”) matrix A over a set S is a rectangular array of elements of S arranged into m rows and n columns: (an mn matrix shown)
We write $A = (a_{ij})$.
What is the meaning of $A = (a_{ij})$? $a_{ij}$ is an elements in the matrix, what's the point it writing this equality?
Some times you want to talk about the matrix as a whole. Then you use $A$. Some times you want to talk about the elements. Then you use $a_{ij}$. The point of writing the equality is to formally establish that they are, ultimately, just two different notations for the same thing.