My textbook give the following definition.
Let $G$ be any topological group. A representation of $G$ on a nonzero complex Hilbert space $V$ is a group homomorphism $\phi$ of $G$ into the group of bounded linear operators on $V$ with bounded inverses, such that the resulting map $ G\times V\to V$ is continuous.
And it says that to have the continuity property it is enough to have that the map $g\mapsto \phi(g)v$ from $G$ to $V$ is continuous at $g=1$ for all $v\in V$ and a uniform bound for $\|\phi(g)\|$ in some neighbourhood of $1$.
I want to show that the map $G\times V\to V$ given by $(g,v)\mapsto \phi(g)v$ is continuous under these assumptions.
My attempt
Let $(g_0,v_0)\in G\times V$. Let $\epsilon>0$. We need to find an open neighbourhood $U\subseteq G\times V$ of $(g_0,v_0)$ such that $\|\phi(g)v-\phi(g_0)v_0\|<\epsilon$ for all $(g,v)\in U$. By the continuity of the map $G\to V$ by $g\mapsto \phi(g)v_0$ at $g=1$, there is an open neighbourhood $N$ of $1$ such that $\|\phi(g)v_0-v_0\|<\epsilon$ for all $g\in N$. On the other hand, for any $g\in N$ we have \begin{align*} \|\phi(g)v-\phi(g_0)v_0\|&=\|\phi(g_0^{-1}g)v-v_0\| \qquad \text{by the unitarity} \\&\leq \|\phi(g_0^{-1}g)v-\phi(g_0^{-1}g)v_0\|+\|\phi(g_0^{-1}g)v_0-v_0\| \\& \leq \|\phi(g_0^{-1}g)\|_{op} \|v-v_0\|+\underbrace{\|\phi(g_0^{-1}g)v_0-v_0\|}_\text{$(*)$} \end{align*}
Here I could not find an upper bound for the term $(*)$. Could anyone help me? Thanks.
Update: I have realized that we have no unitarity assumption. So I will think on this.
While s.harp's answer is fine, we can obtain a similar proof that fits the neighborhood-style proof you're pursuing.
Fix $(g_0,v_0)\in G\times V$ and $\varepsilon>0$. By hypothesis, there is some $M>0$ and some neighborhood $U'$ of $1\in G$ such that $\|\phi(h)\|\leq M$ for all $h\in U'$. Additionally, there is some neighobrhood $U''$ of $1\in G$ such that $\|\phi(h)v_0-v_0\|<\varepsilon$ for all $h\in U''$. Put $U=U'\cap U''$. Now if $\|v-v_0\|<\varepsilon$ and $g\in g_0U$, we have \begin{align} \|\phi(g_0)v_0-\phi(g)v\|&\leq\|\phi(g_0)\|\|\phi(g_0^{-1}g)v-v_0\|\\ &\leq\|\phi(g_0)\|\left[\|\phi(g_0^{-1}g)\|\|v-v_0\|+\|\phi(g_0^{-1}g)v_0-v_0\|\right]\\ &\leq\|\phi(g_0)\|\left(M+1\right)\varepsilon. \end{align} So (after some rescaling), $g_0U\times B_\varepsilon(v_0)$ is our desired neighborhood of $(g_0,v_0)$.