\begin{cases} a_{n+1}=4a_n+n+1\\ a_0=1\\ \end{cases}
a. find $\alpha,\beta$ such that if we plug in $b_n=a_n+\alpha n+\beta$ we will get $b_{n+1}=4b_n$
b. find $b_n$ explicitly
So we first plug in the guess
$a_{n+1}=4a_n+n+1$ but $a_n=b_n-\alpha n-\beta$ so
$a_{n+1}=4(b_n-\alpha n-\beta)+n+1=4b_n+n(1-4\alpha)+1-4\beta$
then we look at $1-4\alpha=0\iff \alpha=\frac{1}{4}$ and $1-4\beta=0\iff \beta=\frac{1}{4}$ (Why do we do it?)
So we got $b_n=a_n+\frac{1}{4} n+\frac{1}{4}$
looking at $n=0$ we get $b_0=0+n*0+\frac{1}{4}$ so $b_0=\frac{1}{4}$
a. how to continue?
b. is there a place I can read about this process? I was just given examples which I try yo learn from, but I try to undersatnd
Not a single answer so far has tried to address your specific question so I'll try to do just that.
So we have set $b_n = a_n + cn + d$ (I've changed the lettering since it's easier to type, but otherwise it's the same!). You made a slight error when finding $c$ and $d$, so I'll do it out for you. $b_{n+1} = a_{n+1} + cn + c + d = 4a_n + n + 1 + cn + c + d$ $ = 4(b_n - cn - d) + n + 1 + cn + c +d = 4b_n +(1-3c)n + (1+c-3d) $
Now you're asked to find $c,d$ such that $b_{n+1}=b_n$, hence $1-4c=0$ and $1+c+d=0$ which gives us that $c= \frac {1}{3}, d = \frac {4}{9}$. What's the point of defining $b_n$ this way? Well because $b_{n+1}=rb_n$ has a simple solution for any real $r$: $b_n = b_0 r^n $ This is actually the definition of exponentiation when the exponent is a natural number (or negative integer, but that's not relevant right now so don't worry if you don't understand). Plug the solution in yourself if you're still not convinced.
So $b_n = b_0 4^n $, and finally $a_n = b_0 4^n -n/3 -4/9$. I'll leave it to you to find the value of $b_0$.
This area is called recurrence relations, or recursive sequences less commonly. As others have said questions like these are phenomenally similar to the theory of ordinary differential equations, so you could study them to get more ideas. Furthermore, for a question like this, with practice you'll get more confident about what substitutions to make to solve the problem. In this case the $4$ in front of $a_n$ was a very strong hint the answer was going to be exponential in some way.
Some of the other solutions do have some nice solutions that are worth looking at; the characteristic equation is a pretty big deal in recurrence relations, as well as ordinary differential equations.