I am thinking of positive sequences whose sum is infinite but whose sum of squares is not?
One representative sequence is $$x[n] = \frac{a}{n+b},$$ where $a$ and $b$ are given real numbers such that $a>0$ and $b\ge0$.
I know that there will be infinitely many more sequences $x[n]$ such that $x[n]\ge0, ~x=1, 2, ...$, $\sum x[n] = \infty$, and $\sum (x[n])^2 <= M$ for a sufficiently large constant value $M$.
Can you give me some examples? If possible, I would really appreciate it if you could tell me how to find these sequences (i.e., methodology of how to find).
Let's first notice, that if $$\limsup_{n\to\infty} \frac{x_{n+1}}{x_n} < 1$$ then both series $\sum_{n=1}^\infty x_n$ and $\sum_{n=1}^\infty x_n^2$ converge. On the other hand, if $$\liminf_{n\to\infty} \frac{x_{n+1}}{x_n} > 1$$ then both series $\sum_{n=1}^\infty x_n$ and $\sum_{n=1}^\infty x_n^2$ diverge. Therefore you need as a necessary (but not sufficient) condition $$ \liminf_{n\to\infty} \frac{x_{n+1}}{x_n} \le 1 \le \limsup_{n\to\infty} \frac{x_{n+1}}{x_n}.$$
To find the convergence of such series, you can often use the Raabe's test. We define $$ y_n = n\left(\frac{x_n}{x_{n+1}} -1\right)$$ $$ z_n = n\left(\frac{x^2_n}{x^2_{n+1}} -1\right) $$ The series $\sum_{n=1}^\infty x_n$ diverges while $\sum_{n=1}^\infty x_n^2$ converges if $$ \limsup_{n\to\infty} y_n \le 1, \qquad \liminf_{n\to\infty} z_n > 1 $$ For example, any sequence which has the asymptotic behavior $x_n \sim n^{-\alpha}$, $\alpha \in(\frac12, 1]$ will give you $$\lim_{n\to\infty} y_n = \alpha \le 1 $$ $$\lim_{n\to\infty} z_n = 2\alpha > 1 $$ so it will satisfy these conditions.