I'm trying to solve the following exercise:

My backward equation looks like: $P_{i,j}'(t) = i\lambda P_{i+1,j}(t) - i\lambda P_{i,j}(t) $
So i started with differentiating $P_{i,j}(t)$:
${j-1 \choose i-1}(e^{-i\lambda t}(1-e^{-\lambda t})^{j-i})'$ By using $(uv)' = u'v + uv'$
${j-1 \choose i-1}-i\lambda (e^{-i\lambda t}(1-e^{-\lambda t})^{j-i}) + {j-1 \choose i-1}(j-i)\lambda (e^{-(i+1)\lambda t}(1-e^{-\lambda t})^{j-i-1}) $
where the first term is cleary $-i\lambda P_{i,j}(t) $.
I don't see how i can turn $ {j-1 \choose i-1}(j-i)$ into ${j-1 \choose i}i$ so the second term equals $i\lambda P_{i+1,j}(t) $
You seem to have the wrong definition of $P_{i,j}$ it should be ${j-1 \choose i-1}$, not ${j-i \choose i-1}$. If you do the same thing with this corrected version, then $$ \begin{align*} {j-1 \choose i-1}(j-i) &= \frac{(j-1)!}{(i-1)!(j-i)!}(j-i) \\ &= \frac{(j-1)!}{(i-1)!(j-i-1)!} = \frac{(j-1)!}{((i+1)-1)!(j-(i+1))!}i \\ &= {j-1 \choose (i+1)-1}i \end{align*} $$