Any element $g$ of $GL(2,p)$ of order $p$, $p$ prime, is conjugate to $\begin{bmatrix}1&1\\0&1\end{bmatrix}.$
I showed that $\langle g\rangle $ acts on the set $X$ of vectors with entries in $ F_p$ and hence that $g$ fixes some non-zero element of $X$ (By Orbit-Stabiliser, since $|X| = p^2$ and $|\langle g\rangle|=p$). In an exercise, I am then asked to deduce from this the statement above, which I am stuck on.
It sounds like you want a mixture of group actions and linear algebra.
Let $g\in G=GL_2(\Bbb{F}_p)$ be an element of order $p$. Let's denote $H=\langle g\rangle$, and $X=\Bbb{F}_p^2$ the set of (column) all vectors on which both $H$ and $G$ act by matrix multiplication from the left.