Someone told me that math has a lot of contradictions.
He said that a lot of things are not well defined.
He told me two things that I do not know.
- $1+2+3+4+...=-1/12$
- what is infinity $\infty$?
Since I am not a math specialist and little. How to disprove the previous two?
How can I convince him?
There are no known contradictions in mathematics. That does not mean there aren't, it just says we didn't find any. Considering the fact that thousands of mathematicians are creating new mathematics daily, and not a single one ever encountered any contradiction is quite overwhelming circumstantial evidence that there are no contradictions. However, it is impossible to prove mathematically that a contradiction does not exist. There is an important theorem due to Goedel that proves that if mathematics does not have contradictions, then it is impossible to prove it.
That is just the state of affairs. Most mathematicians won't give this a second thought since the circumstantial evidence for lack of contradictions suffices to put any serious doubts to rest. Moreover, since we choose the axioms we work with, if a contradiction with the currently (more or less) accepted choice of axioms is found, we'll simply change the axioms so the found contradiction disappears. It is unlikely that will ever happen, but if it does it (probably) won't be a big deal and most of mathematics will survive intact.
As for your friend's confusion with the two results you mention, (s)he is just taking you about 300 years back in time when people had all sorts of weird ideas about infinity and before rigorous definitions for dealing with infinite series were laid down. The apparent contradictions you see are nothing but the result of carelessly playing with undefined concepts. These problems were immediately solved with the advent of rigorous calculus. (The series you give simply does not converges, not to any number. As for the concept of infinity, it can be defined rigorously in many different ways and can be manipulated without causing any contradiction, as long as one understands the context).