The question is
Let $V$ be a complex inner product space, and let $S$ be a subspace of $V$. Suppose that $v\in V$ is a vector for which $\langle s,v\rangle + \langle v,s\rangle \leq \langle s,s\rangle$ for all $s\in S$. Prove that $v\in S^{\perp}$.
I am thinking about proving it by contradiction, but I am not sure what $\langle s,v\rangle + \langle v,s\rangle \leq \langle s,s\rangle$ can tell me. What I am sure about right now is that $v$ must not be in $S$ since if $v$ is in $S$, then $v$ will be equal to some $s$ in $S$, then there exists such $s$ that $\langle s,v\rangle + \langle v,s\rangle = \langle s,s\rangle + \langle s,s\rangle = 2\langle s,s\rangle \gt \langle s,s\rangle$. So $v$ must be in somewhere else. What else can I know, I am so confused right now, can somebody give me some hints?
Hint: Think about what happens as we make $\langle s,s\rangle$ smaller and smaller.