All I knew about partial derivatives before thinking about all this (the paragraphs below) was that you keep one variable constant and differentiate with respect to the other variable. I got to know about this from youtube videos where it is mentioned a lot; I do not have any sort of formal education in multivariable calculus because I'll be going to college this year (technically still in high school).
What clicked in my mind was this: In 3d space when you fix one coordinate you get a plane and in that plane, you find the derivative with respect to x once and then you fix x and find the derivative with respect to y because when you’re dealing with multivariable functions, I guess x is one variable y is the second and f(x,y) can be taken on the z-axis. First of all, is this correct?
What I do not get is this: Now you have two tangents in perpendicular planes at a single point. What do you do with them? Add them vectorially or just leave it like that?
Second question: Does this mean I can't graphically interpret tri-variable calculus? Because imagining 4-d is very difficult??
Third question: How does integration work in this?
On your first question, it depends, but you often want to solve for the gradient of a function, which is a vector whose components are the partial derivatives of the function wrt each variable. The gradient is the direction of fastest increase of the function and its magnitude is that rate—this is more general than the 2D case you learn in 2-variable calculus, where the derivative is the slope, and its magnitude is THE rate of change.
On your second question, while you can’t draw four dimensions, you can possibly draw partial derivatives of four dimensions. For example, if f(x, y, z) = x + y + z, then df / dx = y + z + 1, which is 3-dimensional.
Your third question is extremely general. There are a few types of integrals in multivariable calculus, with various uses: e.g. finding the area of a surface or a volume; there are multiple applications of these integrals, particularly to physics.