Calculation of $\min$ distance between $x^2+y^2=9$ and $2x^2+10y^2+6xy=1$
$\bf{My\; Try::}$ Using the fact that the distance between two curve is independent of shifting.
So put $x=u+v$ and $y=u-v$ in thsese two curves, We get $\displaystyle u^2+v^2=\frac{9}{2}$
and $\displaystyle 2(u^2+v^2-2uv)+10(u^2+v^2-2uv)+6(u^2-v^2) = 1\Rightarrow 18u^2+6v^2-20uv=1$
But here again i get terms of $uv,$ So i did not understand how can i solve it,
Help me, Thanks

Some hints:
The first curve $C_1$ is a circle centered at the origin, with radius $3$, and the second curve $C_2$ is a conic section of some sort.
To find the minimum distance between $C_1$ and $C_2$, you can just find the distance from $C_2$ to the origin, and then subtract $3$.
To find the distance from $C_2$ to the origin, you can minimize $x^2+ y^2$ subject to the constraint $2x^2 + 10y^2 + 6xy - 1 = 0$. In principle, this is a straightforward application of Lagrange multipliers. But in reality you may run into algebra problems, because finding the distance between a point and a conic section typically reduces to finding the roots of a polynomial of degree 4. This will be a huge mess of algebra unless the numbers have been chosen to give you an easy and obvious factorization.
Edit:
The comment from @Lab above is not quite correct, according to my calculations, but it's heading in a good direction. On the second curve $C_2$, have $$ x = \frac{1}{\sqrt{10}} \left( 3\cos u + \frac{1}{\sqrt{11}}\sin u \right) \quad ; \quad y = \frac{1}{\sqrt{10}} \left( -\cos u + \frac{3}{\sqrt{11}}\sin u \right) $$ So the distance (squared) to the origin is a quadratic function of $\sin u$ and $\cos u$. If you use the Weierstrass substitution $$ \cos u = \frac{1-t^2}{1+t^2} \quad ; \quad \sin u = \frac{2t}{1+t^2} $$ you can convert this to a univariate rational function of $t$ of degree 4. You need to find the minimum value of this function. You could try finding the zeros of the first derivative algebraically, but this is likely to be very messy. Alternatively, use a numerical minimization procedure.
Edit #2:
Aha!! The ellipse is centered at the origin, which makes everything easy. It's equation is $$ (x,y) = \left(\frac{3}{\sqrt{10}}, \frac{-1}{\sqrt{10}}\right) \cos u + \frac{1}{\sqrt{11}}\left(\frac{1}{\sqrt{10}}, \frac{3}{\sqrt{10}}\right) \sin u $$ Note that the two vectors appearing in this equation are orthogonal unit vectors that give us the axes of symmetry of the ellipse. The lengths of the semi-major and semi-minor axes are $1$ and $1/\sqrt{11}$ respectively, so the ellipse lies entirely inside the circle.
The closest points to the circle are the ends of the major axis. The minimum distance is 2.
So, in the end, the key is to "diagonalize" the ellipse equation, which is just a simple eigenvalue problem. Further info on this topic in this question. The minimization techniques mentioned above are applicable in general, but are not needed here.