I understand that if we define a set such that $A=\{A\}$ we have then a contradiction because of regularity axiom, thus, a set can not be a member of itself. My question is; how can it be so, if I define a set $A=\{A,b\}$ ($b$ disjoint from $A$)?
Thanks.
In general, if we suppose that $A$ is any set such that $A\in A,$ then let $C=\{A\}$. That will give you your contradiction from the Axiom of Regularity.