Let $$f_x(x) = \frac{nx}{1+nx^2}$$
Is the convergence uniform on $(0, \infty)$?
We know that it's pointwise convergent onf $f(x)= \frac{1}{x}$ as we take the limit $\lim_{n \to \infty} f_n(x)$.
However, to show that it's not uniform we proceed with the following:
$$|f_n(x) - f(x)| = \left| \frac{nx}{1+nx^2} - \frac{1}{x} \right| = \frac{1}{x+nx^3}$$
What throws me off next is why we choose the following $N$
$$N \ge \frac{1-\epsilon x}{\epsilon x^3}$$
to make $|f_n(x) - f(x)| < \epsilon$
Referring to what "throws you off":
$$N \ge \frac{1-\epsilon x}{\epsilon x^3}$$
This $N$ is not chosen. The idea here is to show that such an $N$ does not exist. This then means that the convergence cannot be uniform.
Here the complete proof by contradiction:
Assume that the convergence is uniform and let $\epsilon >0$ be arbitrary but fixed. Then, there should be an $N\in\mathbb{N}$, such that for all $x\in (0,\infty)$
$$\frac 1{x+Nx^3}\leq \epsilon$$
Solving this inequality vor $N$ gives
$$N \ge \frac{1-\epsilon x}{\epsilon x^3}$$
This means, this $N$ should satisfy above inequality for all $x\in (0,\infty)$. Now, choosing $0<x$ small enough such that $2\epsilon x < 1$ you get
$$N \ge \frac{1-\epsilon x}{\epsilon x^3}> \frac{2\epsilon x-\epsilon x}{\epsilon x^3} = \frac 1{x^2} \stackrel{x\to 0^+}{\longrightarrow} \infty$$
This shows that such an $N$ does not exist. Hence, the convergence cannot be uniform.