I am learning topology by myself, and this is a list of my open questions
(when I say $st.R^n$ I mean standard topology on $R^n$)
beyond the definition, what actually is a topological space? is it any a set of points which is arranged in a certain way geometrically(like a line, shape, plane etc., not neccessarily euclidian)? if yes, then is $(\{(x,y)|x^2+y^2=r^2\}, st.R)$ for example the topological space of a circle? does every shape in euclidian geometry or manifold have $st.R^n$?
can abstaract topological spaces with a topology different than $st.R^n$ be visualised? do they appear anywhere in the real world or are they purely theoretic?
when topology is introduced we usually talk about continous deformations, are these actually just homeomorphisms?
I know open sets are subsets of the topology on the set, and that is defines the way that points are "connected", but how does it do that?
how would you describe things like hexagonal tiling a a topological space(i.e. an ordered pair $(X,)$)?
A topological space is a set $X$ and a subset $\mathcal{O}_X\subseteq\mathcal{P}(X)$ of its power set. (I am not sure if the english expression "set system" is used, in german a subset of the power set is called "Mengensystem".) An element $U\in\mathcal{O}_X$, which is a subset $U\subset X$ is called an open set of $X$.
If you consider the real world to be the normed vector spaces $\mathbb{R}^3$ or $\mathbb{R}^4$, we always get the same induced topology as all norms on $\mathbb{R}^n$ are equivalent and therefore always the same sets are open.
For topological spaces $(X,\mathcal{O}_X)$ and $(Y,\mathcal{O}_Y)$, a map $f\colon X\rightarrow Y$ between their respective sets is called continuous, if preimages of open sets are open: \begin{equation} \forall U\in\mathcal{O}_X\colon f^{-1}(U)\in\mathcal{O}_Y. \end{equation} A homeomorphism between topological spaces is a continuous bijective map with continuous inverse. (Compare this with the definition of a diffeomorphism for example.) Homeomorphic spaces basically have the same respective set and same topology on it, when you just rename everything (which the homeomorphism does).
For example, you can ask yourself if for every two point $x,y\in X$, do you have open sets $U,V\in\mathcal{O}_X$ with $x\in U$, $y\in V$ and $U\cap V=\emptyset$? A space like this is called a Hausdorff space, which is easy to remember as the two points can be housed off by disjoint open sets. You can look at similar conitions (weaker and stronger), which are called the seperation axioms. Hausdorff spaces (seperation axiom $T_2$) are the most important among them.
Hexagonal tiling is not used for topological spaces as far as I know, but triangulation. You basically take a collection of subsets of a topological spaces, that are homeomorphic to a triangle in $\mathbb{R}^2$, so the verticies and edges overlap.