Let $V$ be an inner product space over $\mathbb{C}$. Is the expression
$$ \newcommand{\<}{\langle} \newcommand{\>}{\rangle} \<v,\lambda u\> = \bar{\lambda}\<v,u\> = \bar{\lambda}\overline{\<u,v\>} = \overline{\<\bar{\lambda}u,v\>} = \<v,\bar{\lambda}u\> $$ true? I mean is every move "legal"?
No, the third equality does not hold. Note that
$$\overline{\lambda}\,\overline{\langle u, v\rangle} = \overline{\lambda\langle u, v\rangle} = \overline{\langle\lambda u, v\rangle}.$$