I want to compute $$\lim_{x\to \infty }\sum_{n=1}^\infty \frac{1}{n(n+x)}.$$
Can I do as follow? Consider the measurable space $(\mathbb N,\mathcal P(\mathbb N),\mu)$ where $\mu(A)=\#A$. Then, $$\sum_{n=1}^\infty \frac{1}{n(n+x)}=\int_{\mathbb N}\frac{1}{n(n+x)}d\mu(n).$$ Suppose $|x|\geq 1$. Then $$\left|\frac{1}{n(n+x)}\right|\leq \frac{1}{n(n+1)}\in L^1(\mathbb N),$$ and thus, using DCT, we finally obtain $$\lim_{x\to \infty }\sum_{n=1}^\infty \frac{1}{n(n+x)}=\sum_{n=1}^\infty \lim_{x\to \infty }\frac{1}{n(n+x)}=0.$$
Does it work ?
I am not sure if I understood what you wrote. But I am quite sure that you do not need the measure you defined, or in fact any complicated calculus.
The function $f(x):= \sum\limits_{n=1}^{\infty} \frac{1}{n(n+x)}$ is clearly strictly monotone decreasing and non-negative. So the limit exists, and in fact $\lim\limits_{x\rightarrow \infty} f(x)$ is the limit of the sequence $\lim\limits_{m\rightarrow \infty} f(m)$ where $m$ runs through the positive integers.
So we can restrict our attention to positive integers $x$. Then $\frac{1}{n(n+x)} = \frac{1}{x} (\frac{1}{n}- \frac{1}{n+x})$. The sum $\sum\limits_{n=1}^{\infty} \frac{1}{n}- \frac{1}{n+x}$ is a telescopic sum, its value is $\sum\limits_{n=1}^x \frac{1}{n} \approx \log x$. So $f(x)\approx \frac{\log x}{x}$, which tends to zero as $x$ tends to infinity.