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This is a self-answered question, which I put here since it wasn't obvious for me. (Tangent bundle stuff can be confusing.)
Let $\N$ be a smooth compact $n$-dimensional Riemannian manifold, and let $i:\N \to \R^D$ be an isometric embedding. Let $q_k,q \in \N$, $w_k \in T_{q_k}\N,w \in T_q\N$.
Claim: Suppose that $di_{q_k}(w_k) \to di_{q}(w)$. (this is a convergence of a sequence of vectors in $\R^D$). Then $w_k \to w$ w.r.t the topology of $T\N$.
Of course, I would be happy to see other approaches.
I think the general result is, that the tangent bundle functor preserves embeddings, i.e. if $f:M\to N$ is an embedding (smooth immersion+ homeomorphism onto its image) then the differential $Tf :TM\to TN$ is also an embedding.
If im not mistaken, this can be shown by taking adapted charts for the submanifold $f(M)$ or using the constant rank theorem.