I need to find a discrete system that has the exact same states and output at $t=0.1k$, with $k \in I$, as the following continuous time system:

I'm mostly confused about what to put for the sampling time. I typically do it in MATLAB with the following bit of code:
A = [-1 0 1; 0 -2 -2; 0 0 -3];
B = [1;1;2];
C = [-1 1 2];
D = 0;
T = %**? <--------------------------- I don't know what to put here with the whole 0.1k < t <0.1(k+1) thing going on**
tau = 0.13;
sys = ss(A,B,C,D);
sys.InputDelay = tau;
discsys = absorbDelay(c2d(sys,T));
Essentially, it seems to me that there is no explicit sampling time given but there is some sort of mathematical abstraction where I'm supposed to draw the sampling time. Any ideas?
You are looking for a solution to your differential equation between those two times. In general you are going to have to recompute things every time step. From the theory of ODEs, your state equation is solved thus:
$$\vec{x}((k+1)T) = \vec{x}[k+1] = e^{AT}\vec{x}(kT) + \int_{kT}^{(k+1)T}e^{A((k+1)T-\tau}d\tau + Bu(kT)$$
The key to the entire thing is that your sampling rate, T, is what governs the bounds on the integrals. Here we went from a lower bound of $kT$ to an upper bound of $(k+1)T$. So in your question you go from $k\times0.1$ to $(k+1)\times0.1$. Hence, in your casee, $T = 0.1$