In Matsumura's Commutative Algebra there is the following Corollary to the Lemma of Nakayama:
Let $A$ be a ring, $M$ an $A$-module, $N$ and $N'$ submodules of $M$, and $I$ an ideal of $A$. Suppose that $M=N+IN'$, and that either:
- $I$ is nilpotent
- $I\subseteq \mathrm{rad}(A)$ and $N'$ is finitely generated.
Then $M=N$.
In both cases the idea is to prove that $M/N=I(M/N)$ and I am struggling with that.
We have that $M/N=(N+IN')/N=IN'/(IN'\cap N)$ and I do not know how to take it from here.
Since $M=N+IN'\subseteq N+IM$ you get $M=N+IM$. Can you continue from here?
Since $M=N+IN'\subseteq N+N'$ you get $M=N+N'$. Can you see now why $M/N$ is finitely generated?