I'm pretty sure I have the wrong intuition here but I have a slight confusion about the way we could calculate the derivative at a certain point using (one of) the definition(s) of the derivative. See example bellow:
$$\frac{df(x)}{dx}= \lim_{h\to0}\frac{f(x+h)-f(x)}{h}$$
let's see the case of $f(x) = \sqrt{5x+10}$
$$\frac{df(x)}{dx}=\lim_{h\to0}\frac{\sqrt{5h+5x+10}-\sqrt{5x+10}}{h}$$
If we want to calculate $f'(5)$
$$\left.\frac{df(x)}{dx}\right\rvert_5=\lim_{h\to0}\frac{\sqrt{5h+35}-\sqrt{35}}{h}$$
if we try to find the limits when $h\to0^+$:
The numerator would be only slightly superior to 0
The denominator would be only slightly superior to 0
$$\frac{\text{very small number above zero}} {\text{very small number above zero}}\approx 1$$
It should be the same for $h\to 0^-$
Hence: $f'(5)= 1$?
N.B: I know this result is wrong, I just want to know how the logic I used is faulty.
The intuitive approach to solving a limit, along the lines of "slightly more than zero" or "slightly less than zero" is just that - an intuitive approach. That is to say, it's a good rule of thumb that often gets you close to the right answer, but it's not actually correct. The issue is that when you have multiple expressions in play, how they synchronize is important.
To take an extremely simple example, consider $\lim_{x \to 0}\frac{2x}{x}$. $2x$ and $x$ are both "very small numbers" when $x$ is very small - but $x$ gets small twice as fast as $2x$ does. At any given instant, $\frac{2x}{x}$ will in fact always be $2$, so the limit is just $2$.
The key idea here is that the definition of the limit is what drives it. The definition of a limit states that $\lim_{x \to a}f(x) = L$ if and only if for every $\epsilon > 0$ there is a $\delta > 0$ so that whenever $|x - a| < \delta$, $|f(x) - L| < \epsilon$. What your example demonstrates is that the intuitive idea of replacing pieces of $f$ with "very small positive numbers" is not an accurate reflection of this definition.