Let $z_n$ be a Blaschke sequence in $\mathbb{D}$ and let $B$ be the Blaschke product defined by $$B(z)=z^m\prod_{n=1}^{\infty}\frac{|z_n|}{z_n}\frac{z_n-z}{1-\bar{z}_nz}$$ I'm trying to show the following relationship is true for any $n$. $$(1-|z_n|^2)|B'(z_n)|=\prod_{m=1,m\neq n}^{\infty}\left|\frac{z_n-z_m}{1-\bar{z}_n z_m}\right|$$
By simply taking the derivative of the product, we have $$B'(z) =mz^{m-1}\prod_{n=1}^{\infty}\frac{|z_n|}{z_n}\frac{z_n-z}{1-\bar{z}_nz}+z^m\prod_{n=1}^{\infty}\frac{|z_{n}|}{z_{n}}\frac{(\bar{z}_{n}z-1)+(z_{n}-z)\bar{z}_{n}}{(1-\bar{z}_{n}z)^{2}}$$
But I'm having trouble seeing how the right hand side of the equation can be derived from here.
Your computation of the derivative seems to be wrong because apparently you differentiated the product termwise. Also you are using the variable $m$ for two different purposes.
One can use the definition of the derivative directly instead. $B(z_n) = 0$, therefore $$ \begin{align} B'(z_n) &= \lim_{z \to z_n} \frac{B(z)}{z-z_n}\\ &= \lim_{z \to z_n} z^m \left(\frac{|z_n|}{z_n}\frac{-1}{1-\bar z_n z}\right) \cdot \prod_{k \ne n}\frac{|z_k|}{z_k} \frac{z_k-z}{1-\bar z_k z} \\ &= \frac{z_n^m}{|z_n|^2-1 }\frac{|z_n|}{z_n}\prod_{k \ne n} \frac{|z_k|}{z_k}\frac{z_k-z_n}{1-\bar z_k z_n} \end{align} $$ and then the desired conclusion follows by taking the absolute value.