I'm taking a course in continuum mechanics. Our book is Continuum Mechanics by Reddy, a Cambridge edition. In the second chapter he introduces tensors and defines them to be polyadics. He is specifically concerned with dyadic which are tensors of rank (2,0).
In his presentation of dyadic, the notation is introduced, then some properties are given, but no rigorous definition is present. Then the nonionic form is discussed. This form is a $3$x$3$ matrix, as we work in $\mathbb R^3$. The dyadic can apparently be expressed in "nonionic" form, but the laws for getting the matrix entries are not given, and no sufficient information is available in the book to deduce them. Is there a law governing transition from one form to the other?
Furthermore, is this way of introducing tensors standard? Is it just in this one book? What is the motivation for talking about dyadic?
Dyadics and polyadics are a fantastically archaic way, due to Gibbs of thermodynamics fame, to denote and work with linear transformations and tensors in general. In general, the $n$-adic product of vectors $v_1,\dotsc,v_n \in \mathbb{R}^3$ is simply ${\bf v}_1 \cdots {\bf v}_n := v_1 \otimes \cdots \otimes v_n \in (\mathbb{R}^3)^{\otimes n}$, and a dyad can be viewed as a linear transformation (and hence a matrix) via the isomorphism $$\mathbb{R}^3 \otimes \mathbb{R}^3 \cong \mathbb{R}^3 \otimes (\mathbb{R}^3)^\ast \cong \operatorname{End}(\mathbb{R}^3).$$ The historical context you should keep in mind is that historically, determinants actually came long before matrices, and it wasn't until well into the 20th century that linear algebra really took the form we know today, with the emphasis on linear transformations (viz, matrices) as the primary object of interest. Even as late as the 1920's, matrices and matrix algebra were still so recherché, even in theoretical physics (!), that Heisenberg managed to independently "rediscover" matrix multiplication in the course of his work on quantum mechanics without knowing it, until Born (I think) pointed it out.
In any event, from what I understand, Reddy's use of dyadics and polyadics is not at all unusual for continuum mechanics, which presumably still uses them as an entrenched relic of an earlier time, not all that long ago, when they were the sensible, mainstream mathematical tools to use, and not linear transformations and tensors as we know them.
As for how to put a dyad in "nonionic form," I can only presume that it is given, in terms of the isomorphism above, by $$ {\bf e}_i{\bf e}_j = e_i \otimes e_j \mapsto E_{ij}, $$ where $\{e_1,e_2,e_3\}$ is the standard ordered basis for $\mathbb{R}^3$, and $E_{ij}$ is the matrix with entries $(E_{ij})_{kl} = \delta_{ij}\delta_{kl}$. However, do take a look at the relevant Wikipedia page.