I have diagonlised P to get $$P=\left(\begin{matrix} -1 &0 &0\\ 0 &0 &0\\ 0 &0 &1 \end{matrix}\right)$$
however am unsure on how to proceed, would appreciate any help!
By diagonalising P by a transformation of similarity, show that
$$ e^{Pt} = (I_3 - P^2) + P \sinh( t) + P^2 \cosh(t)$$
when
$P$ is the matrix $$P=\left(\begin{matrix} 0 &1 &0\\ 0 &0 &1\\ 0 &1 &0 \end{matrix}\right)$$ and where $I_3$ is the identity matrix of a $3\times3$
Edit: You do not need to diagonalize, actually. Simply compute and observe that $$ P^3=P. $$ To figure this out, of course, one might need to compute the eigenvalues: $-1,0,1$. So actually, $P^3-P=0$ is nothing but Cayley-Hamilton.
Note that $$ P^0=I_3\qquad P^{2n}=P^2\qquad P^{2n-1}=P\qquad\forall n\geq 1. $$
So $$ e^{tP}=\sum_{n\geq 0}\frac{t^nP^n}{n!}=I_3+\sum_{n\geq 1}\frac{t^{2n}}{(2n)!}P^2+\sum_{n\geq 1}\frac{t^{2n+1}}{(2n+1)!}P $$ $$ =I_3 +(\cosh t-1)P^2+\sinh t P=I_3-P^2+\sinh tP+\cosh tP^2. $$
Note: if you do absolutely need to diagonalize, go ahead and write $$ P=AQA^{-1} $$ where $Q$ is the diagonalized form you found.
Then all the previous argument holds for $Q$ and you find $$ e^{tQ}=I_3 +(\cosh t-1)Q^2+\sinh t Q=I_3-Q^2+\sinh tQ+\cosh tQ^2. $$ It only remains to see that $$ AQ^nA^{-1}=(AQA^{-1})^n=P^n\qquad\forall n\geq 0 $$ to deduce that $$ e^{tP}=Ae^{tQ}A^{-1}=I_3 +(\cosh t-1)P^2+\sinh t P=I_3-P^2+\sinh tP+\cosh tP^2. $$