I want to prove that $$ f(x,y)= \begin{cases} \frac{xy^2}{x^2+y^2} &\text{ if }(x,y)\neq (0,0)\\ 0 &\text{ if }(x,y)=(0,0) \end{cases} $$ is not differentiable at $(0,0)$.
I thought that I can prove that it is not continuous around $(0,0)$ but it certainly is!
So how can I prove that it is not differentiable?
Since $f_x(0,0)=f_y(0,0)=0$, if $f$ was differentiable at $(0,0)$, $f'(0,0)$ would be the null function. Therefore$$\lim_{(x,y)\to(0,0)}\frac{\bigl|f(x,y)-f(0,0)\bigr|}{\sqrt{x^2+y^2}}=0,$$which means that$$\lim_{(x,y)\to(0,0)}\frac{|xy^2|}{(x^2+y^2)^{\frac32}}=0.$$However, this is false. See what happens when $x=y$.