We consider following subtraction- $$3-1=2$$ If we subtract 1 from 3 than result is 2. in This operation 1 is not destroyed but only replaced from 3 now we consider following equation- $$1\times 0=0$$ in this multiplication, what happened with 1? where 1 is replaced? does it mean 1 is destroyed?
If we say that 1 is changed into 0 after multiplication by zero than what is the meaning of changed into zero in mathematics? Is the number destroyed or replaced anywhere?
Numbers aren't physical so it's almost weird to say they are "destroyed" or "replaced".
It's easier to interpret it the usual way ...
3 - 1 = One less than 3 = 3 less 1 = 3 remove 1 = 2.
-1x0 = 0 times (-1) = "None" of -1 = "None" = 0. In the case here, -1 didn't disappear, it's just that you didn't have any in the first place.
Try it with 2x0 ...
2x0 = two zeros added together = zero twos = 0.