My question is summarised as follows:
Is $$\lim_{x\to a}\frac{f'(x)}{g'(x)} $$ always equal to $$\lim_{x\to a}\frac{f(x)}{g(x)} $$ or can we only deduce values of limits using differentiation in the forward direction, ie we can't deduce that the value of $\lim_{x\to a}\frac{f'(x)}{g'(x)} $ is the same as $\lim_{x\to a}\frac{f(x)}{g(x)} $?
Logically I cannot see why this shouldn't be true (ie I can't see why we can't also integrate the numerator and denominator). HOWEVER, the following result seems to throw some doubt on this:
Consider the identity $$f(x)^2\frac{d}{dx}\frac{g(x)}{f(x)}+g(x)^2\frac{d}{dx}\frac{f(x)}{g(x)}\equiv0$$ $$\implies\frac{\frac{d}{dx}\frac{f(x)}{g(x)}}{\frac{d}{dx}\frac{g(x)}{f(x)}}\equiv-\frac{f(x)^2}{g(x)^2}$$ On applying L'Hopital's rule we obtain $$\lim_{x\to a}\frac{\frac{d}{dx}\frac{f(x)}{g(x)}}{\frac{d}{dx}\frac{g(x)}{f(x)}}\equiv\lim_{x\to a}-\frac{f(x)^2}{g(x)^2}\implies\lim_{x\to a}\frac{\frac{f(x)}{g(x)}}{\frac{g(x)}{f(x)}}\equiv\lim_{x\to a}-\frac{f(x)^2}{g(x)^2}$$ $$\implies\lim_{x\to a}\frac{f(x)^2}{g(x)^2}\equiv\lim_{x\to a}-\frac{f(x)^2}{g(x)^2}$$ which is obviously false.
Any help explaining this apparent proof would be appreciated.
The standard theorem says that both limits are equal if
You can use it to find the limit of $f(x)/g(x)$ from the limit of $f'(x)/g'(x)$ or to find the limit of $f'(x)/g'(x)$ from the limit of $f(x)/g(x)$, but you do need to know that the limit of $f'(x)/g'(x)$ exists.
EDIT: Your "apparent proof" is bogus because it violates assumption (2).