$$\sum_{m=0}^\infty \sum_{n=0}^\infty \frac{m+n+mn}{2^m(2^m+2^n)}$$ I have no experience evaluating double sums, but what intuition I have about single sums suggests to me that this series should converge. However, Mathematica fails to evaluate the sum and WolframAlpha tells me the series diverges.
I'm wondering if the averaging technique used here might yield something useful, but I don't if I'm adapting it properly. If $S$ denotes my sum, then $$2S=\sum_{m=0}^\infty\sum_{n=0}^\infty \frac{m+n+mn}{2^{m+n}}$$ which I'm told also diverges. I don't think this method will work since I can't split the numerator into a product $a_mb_n$.
Your initial series is convergent: you may consider partial sums to manipulate terms as you did, and since $$\displaystyle n+m+mn\leq 3(m+1)(n+1), \quad n\geq0,\,m\geq0,$$ you obtain $$ 0<2S=\sum_{m=0}^\infty\sum_{n=0}^\infty \frac{m+n+mn}{2^{m+n}}\leq\sum_{m=0}^\infty\sum_{n=0}^\infty \frac{3(m+1)(n+1)}{2^{m+n}}=3\left(\sum_{n=0}^\infty \frac{n+1}{2^n}\right)^2=48. $$