The proof to which I am referring is amply discussed here: Derivative of exponential function proof, but I remain unconvinced by the answers that pertain to the specific proof discovered by user1346994.
It all boils down to showing that $\lim_{h\to 0}\left({\dfrac{e^{h}-1}{h}}\right) = 1$
I find it highly deceiving to replace $e$ with $(1+h)^{1/h}$ in the expression in the limit.
https://math.stackexchange.com/a/671305/309566 is the answer in which I am most interested. But I'm still puzzled by the remark 'again by continuity' and the change of variables bit.
I suppose if my wish were modest, it would be a proof that follows the one stated but with clear justifications. Thanks and sorry if I sound confused!
Well the first question is if you believe that $\lim_{h \rightarrow \infty}(1+h)^{1/h} = e$. Whether you mathematically believe this really comes down to how you define $e$. One definition is quite simply as this limit. You then need to prove $\frac d{dx}e^x = e^x$, which seems to be what the author is doing.
I personally prefer to define $e$ as the exponential base having self-derivative, just because this is how people have been describing $e$ to me since I was a kid. Your proof is zero steps in this case.
I think the most common way to define $e$ is by defining $\ln$ first as the area (definite integral) under $1/x$, and defining $e$ so $\ln(e) = 1$. From here, proving the limit fact is a little harder, but getting the derivative is just a matter of chasing inverses around and using the fundamental theorem of calculus.
Anyway, say you assume this limit. You can get to $h \rightarrow 0$ instead of $\infty$ easily, actually. From here it's really just composition of (continuous!) functions: if $a(x) \rightarrow a_0$ then $b(a(x)) \rightarrow b(a_0)$. What's a little trickier is establishing the limit exists at all, so yes, there is work to make this proof complete, but it's not going in the wrong direction.