Find an example of matrices, $A$ and $B$, with $AB=BA$ and for which $\lambda$ is an eigenvalue of $A$, $\mu$ an eigenvalue of $B$, but $\lambda+\mu$ is not an eigenvalue of $A+B$, and $\lambda \mu$ not an eigenvalue of $AB$.
Can anyone please provide an example of two such matrices?
Ok trying again. Take $$A = \begin{bmatrix} 0 & 0 & 1\\ 0 & 0 & 0\\ 1 & 0 & 0\end{bmatrix}, \qquad B = \begin{bmatrix} 1 & 0 & 1\\ 0 & 2 & 0\\ 1 & 0 & 1\end{bmatrix}\,.$$
These matrices commute, neither is diagonal, and neither is triangular.
Eigenvalues of $A$: $-1, 1, 0$.
Eigenvalues of $B$: $2, 2, 0$.
Eigenvalues of $A+B$: $3,2,-1$.
Eigenvalues of $AB$: $2,0,0$.
So take $\lambda = -1$ and $\mu = 2$.