Consider the Lie algebra $\mathfrak{sl}(2,\mathbb{C})$ defined in terms of generators and relations by $$\langle x,y,h: [h,x]=2x, [h,y]=-2y, [x,y]=h\rangle.$$ If $X,Y,H$ denote the standard $2\times 2$ matrices giving a representation of $\mathfrak{sl}(2,\mathbb{C})$ then this fact can be interpreted as follows:
The $2\times 2$ matrices $X,Y,H$ generate an associative (sub)algebra inside $M_2(\mathbb{C})$, whose associated Lie algebra is $\mathfrak{sl}(2,\mathbb{C})$.
However this subalgebra of matrices satisfies some extra conditions - namely $X^2=0$, $Y^2=0$. Thus, this subalgebra is not universal enveloping algebra.
Q. Can we embed $\mathfrak{sl}(2,\mathbb{C})$ in some matrix algebra $M_n(\mathbb{C})$ so that the images $X$ and $Y$ of $x$ and $y$ satisfy $X^{n_1}=0$ and $X^{n_2}=0$ for $n_1,n_2$ smallest such integers that are bigger than $2$?
In other words, can we embed $\mathfrak{sl}(2,\mathbb{C})$ in bigger matrix algebra so that the nilpotncy of images of $x,y$ is bigger than $2$? If yes, can this nilpotency be arbitrarily large?
What about $\mathfrak{sl}(2,\mathbb{C})\hookrightarrow M_3(\mathbb{C})$ given by the adjoint representation of $\mathfrak{sl}(2,\mathbb{C})$? In the basis $\{x,y,h\}$, $\operatorname{ad}(x)$, $\operatorname{ad}(y)$, and $\operatorname{ad}(h)$ are given by the following matrices $$X=\begin{pmatrix}0&0&-2\\0&0&0\\0&1&0\end{pmatrix},Y=\begin{pmatrix}0&0&0\\0&0&2\\-1&0&0\end{pmatrix},H=\begin{pmatrix}2&0&0\\0&-2&0\\0&0&0\end{pmatrix}.$$ We have $X^2=\operatorname{ad}(x)^2\neq 0$ and $Y^2=\operatorname{ad}(y)^2\neq 0$, but $X^3=\operatorname{ad}(x)^3=0$ and $Y^3=\operatorname{ad}(y)^3=0$.
In fact, you can embed $\mathfrak{sl}(2,\mathbb{C})$ into any $M_n(\mathbb{C})$ by equipping $\mathbb{C}^n$ with the simple $n$-dimensional module structure with respect to $\mathfrak{sl}(2,\mathbb{C})$. Then, the images $X$ and $Y$ of, respectively, $x$ and $y$ satisfy the condition that $X^k$ and $Y^k$ are nonzero for $k=1,2,\ldots,n-1$, but $X^n=Y^n=0$.