While introducing preorders, Roy L. Crole in Cateories for Types states
If $x \leq y$ and $y \leq x$ then we shall write $x \cong y$ and say that $x$ and $y$ are isomorphic elements.
I'm trying to wrap my head around this in relation to a later exercise problem. How do I go about looking for a preorder with at least two elements which are isomorphic but not identical?
Edit: After giving this some thought, and before reading the answers below, I realized that my question is related to the anti-symmetric property which turns a preorder into a poset. In particular, I can rephrase my question as looking for an example of a preorder which is not also a poset.
Here's a simple and well known example of a preorder which is not an order. The set is $P=\{\,(a,b)\in\mathbf Z^2\mid b>0\,\}$, and the preorder relation is defined by $(a,b)\leq(c,d)\iff ad\leq bc$. It is an easy exercise to show this relation is transitive, but it is not anti-symmetric, since $ad=bc$ is possible for $(a,b)\neq(c,d)$, for instance $(6,10)\leq(15,25)\leq(6,10)$. It can be shown (and ought to be shown in primary school ;-) that classes of so-related pairs (let's call them equivalent) are of the form $\{\,(ka,kb)\mid k\in\mathbf N_{>0}\,\}$ where $a,b$ are relatively prime; these classes are called rational numbers.